We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give. If love does not know how to give and take without restrictions, it is not love, but a transaction that never fails to lay stress on a plus and a minus. Love' has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get - only with what you are expecting to give - which is everything. Marriage is give and take. You'd better give it to her or she'll take it anyway. Give me a lever long enough, and I shall move the world. Giving up smoking is the easiest thing in the world. I know because I've done it thousands of times.